Saturday, 26 July 2014

I failed my driving car test

26.7.14 (Sat)
Yesterday was an important day for me, as I went to sit for my local driving car test. We were only allowed to drive with our foreign car license for three months in Australia. Though I have more than 15 years of driving experiences, but I felt the pressure going for the test. In Australia, everyone drive obeying the rules. Here are some examples:
 
1. Drive according to the speed limit. (in Msia, no one cares about the speed limit!)
2. Obey the give way rules, especially at the roundabout. (in Msia, no one or hardly will give way to you)
3. Do not overtake vehicles anytime you like. (in Msia, ppl overtake without giving any signal)
 
Anyway, back to my test. Hubby and the children accompanied me to the transport department at Ipswich. Last week, hubby passed his test and he said, it was not hard at all, just have to drive with confident and do not panic.
 
My examiner was in his mid 30s I think and was not as chatty as the one Hubby had last week. About 5 minutes out from the centre, we came to a T junction where I could see the STOP sign from far away and had reminded myself to stop before the sign, which I did. Then, I looked left and right and there was no incoming traffic, so I went straight. Suddenly, the examiner shouted, "oh wait wait, you need to stop at the STOP sign!"
 
"I did."
 
Then, the examiner asked me to go on and we came to a intersection with GIVE WAY sign. There was traffic from both ways and I need to make a right turn. I was a bit nervous there coz the cars just kept coming. When one side was clear, the other side had cars..arhh............Finally when I could turn, suddenly a car came from the left side and I hesitated and slowed down. And again, the examiner shouted, " oh oh..just go on!"
 
Next thing I knew, he actually directed me back to the centre after about 10mins drive. The actual test should be about 25-30mins. And if you were asked to return to the centre before the time frame, well, most likely you failed. And yes, I failed! I was very sad and in my mind, I was asking myself, how am I going to break this news to my Hubby who was expecting me to pass the test??!! In fact, I could already imagined his reactions/responses. He was indeed disappointed with the result. I wept coz he didn't even comfort me. He later gave me a "lecture", commenting that I didn't put my 100% into the test, coz he didn't see me practicing before the test, read the rules and I was too stubborn to take advices (driving skills) from him. I somehow agreed with him.
 
Since I failed my test, I am not allowed to drive with my foreign license (new law implemented this year). If I want to drive, then I need to apply for learner license, (something like P license in Msia). But I can choose to resit the test and get the local driving license. So my next attempt will be on end of Aug and I need to brush up on my driving skills and ensure I can prove to the examiner that I am a confident driver.
 
 

Thursday, 10 July 2014

告诉你什么叫做 爱

【1】她不想和丈夫同床。她从柜子里拿了床被子,和丈夫分成两个被窝。她冻得缩在被子里瑟瑟发抖,丈夫将她拉到自己温暖的被窝。
丈夫说,傻瓜,我提前上床就是给你暖被窝的,你放心我不会卷被子的。
她的心瞬间融化。再见到情人时,她问,你爱我吗?情人说,爱!她说,那你会给我暖被窝吗?情人愣了一下说,什么?
她拉开门对情人说,再见。
【爱,就是我身上传递出的体温】

【2】她常独自开车去外地出差,路途中时常感到寂寞。她偶尔给丈夫打电话,丈夫从来都是一个字:嗯。后来她和老板好上了,那个时常在电话里给她讲有趣段子的魅力男人。
她越发的看不顺眼憨实的丈夫,她觉得他们过不下去了。一日她出差,路途中和老板聊的太入神分了心,竟出了车祸。
医院里日夜陪伴她的只有老实的丈夫。丈夫握着她的手说,怎么这么不小心呢。每次和你打电话我都不敢多说一个字,就怕耽误你开车啊...
她紧闭双眼装熟睡,眼泪慢慢滑落。
【爱,不肯多说一个字。】

【3】晚上临睡前问老公:“如果是我得了绝症,你会给我治吗?”
老公都快睡着了,迷迷糊糊说:“别瞎说……倾家荡产也得治!”
我说:“如果你得了呢?”老公:“那就不治了。”
我问:“为什么?”
老公:“剩下你一个人,挣钱不容易。”
【你永远不知道你危险的时候,他会怎样担心的关心你!】

【4】她喜欢上网时吃个苹果,他每天都会削两个苹果,一人一个,她喜欢这温馨浪漫的感觉。
只是她发现他总是先把两个苹果各咬一口,然后再递给她一个,为此,她纳闷了好久。
终于有一天,趁他出去接电话的时候,她拿过他的苹果咬了一口,感觉不如自己的脆甜可口。
瞬间泪水无声滑过脸庞。
【爱,总想把最好的留给你!】

【5】他对她说:你猜猜我的口袋里有几块糖?
她说:猜对了你给我吃吗?
他点点头:嗯,猜对了两块都给你!
她咽了咽口水说:我猜五块!
然后,他笑着把糖放到她手里,说:我还欠你三块。
【因为爱,所以允许你的小贪心!】

【6】古藤摇椅上,一对花甲老人。老太太拉着老头子的手说:老头子啊,我现在都觉得对不住你,那年,我的初恋男友回来找我,说他还爱我,回来带我走,我和他见了面,我还爱他,就回家来收拾行李,一进门,就看见你在厨房给我熬汤,说:这些时间你精神不好,我给你补补身子。
我冲到卧室,就哭了,当时就决定,我不离开你了。
老头子笑嘻嘻的说:老伴啊,这事我早就知道,当时,我偷看了你们的信件,那汤其实是我知道你要走,想着给你熬最后一次,喝完你再走,你不吃饭不行,你晕车厉害。
老太太老泪纵横。她说,老头子,这辈子我做的一件对事,就是当年没离开你。

男人永远不知道女人在想什么,女人永远不知道男人想要什么。其实爱哪有那么难,不过两个字:珍惜!幸福需要经营,希望看完的朋友都要珍惜彼此身边的人。每一对真挚的情侣,都不是无缘无故地相遇,是善缘还是孽缘,跟彼此两人的情怀与相处息息相关。能彼此互补,这就是爱的真谛!

Friday, 4 July 2014

Conversation btw a dad and children before going to bed

Every night before going to bed, Hubby and I will be reading books with the children and praying together. On one particular night, Hubby had a casual chat with them.

Hubby: What do u want to be when you grow up?

Abby: I want to be a princess!

Hubby: Then you need to marry a prince and Papa will be rich!

Ian: Papa, I want to be prince!

Hubby: Oh then you need to marry a princess.

Abby: That's me! I want to marry Ian!

Hubby: Another princess. You cannot marry Ian.

Abby: Oh but why? I love my brother!

Hubby: You can love your brother but cannot marry him.